Dame Judi Dench, a revered figure in the world of acting, has recently shared a touching tribute to her late friend and fellow actress, Dame Maggie Smith. The two legendary dames, who enjoyed a friendship that spanned decades, found solace in their shared experiences in the theatre and film industry. Dench’s heartfelt gesture of planting trees in memory of her loved ones has become a poignant symbol of her enduring affection for those who have passed.
Maggie Smith, who passed away in September at the age of 89, was not only a celebrated actress but also a cherished friend to Dench. Their friendship blossomed in the 1950s when they first met backstage at the Old Vic Theatre in London. Over the years, they appeared together in several films, including “A Room with a View,” “Ladies in Lavender,” and “The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel.” Their on-screen chemistry mirrored the deep bond they shared off-screen, making their friendship all the more special.
In a recent interview with the BBC, Dench revealed the heartwarming way she honored Smith’s memory. On the day of Smith’s funeral, Dench’s gardener discovered a crab apple on the tree she had planted in Smith’s honor. This small yet significant find brought Dench comfort, and she carried the crab apple in her pocket during the funeral. “Joe, who works for me, came in, and he had one little crab apple,” Dench recounted. “And so I had it in my pocket at her funeral, which was a very nice thing to have.” This simple act of remembrance highlights the profound connection Dench felt towards her friend, even in her absence.
Dench’s private forest home in Surrey is a sanctuary filled with trees planted in memory of her closest friends and colleagues. Among those honored in her forest are notable figures such as Alan Rickman, Helen McCrory, Natasha Richardson, and Stephen Sondheim. Each tree serves as a living tribute, a testament to the love and respect Dench holds for those who have shaped her life and career.
The emotional weight of loss has been a recurring theme in Dench’s life. During a recent appearance at the Cheltenham Literature Festival, she became visibly emotional when discussing the recent deaths of Smith and another close friend, Barbara Leigh-Hunt. When interviewer Brendan O’Hea gently broached the subject, Dench struggled to articulate her feelings, breaking down in tears as she reflected on her grief. “I suppose the energy that’s created by grief…” she began, but the weight of her emotions rendered her momentarily speechless.
Dench’s ability to articulate her grief is both poignant and relatable. She once compared grief to petrol, suggesting that it can fuel a person in unexpected ways. This metaphor resonates deeply with anyone who has experienced loss, as it captures the complex interplay of sorrow and strength that often accompanies mourning.
Maggie Smith’s passing has left a significant void in the lives of those who knew and loved her. Her sons, Toby Stephens and Chris Larkin, released a statement following her death, expressing their profound sadness. “An intensely private person, she was with friends and family at the end,” they shared. Smith’s legacy as a remarkable actress and a beloved mother and grandmother will undoubtedly endure, cherished by her family and fans alike.
The friendship between Dench and Smith is a testament to the power of companionship in the arts. Their shared experiences, both on and off the stage, have enriched their lives and the lives of those around them. As Dench continues to honor Smith’s memory through her living tributes, she reminds us all of the importance of love, friendship, and the lasting impact of those we hold dear.
